My mother passed away on December 10, 2009. I needed a way to help myself work through the grieving process. I knew that just writing an occasional entry in a paper journal wouldn't help me deal w/ the myriad of emotions. I've pledged to write in this blog every day for a year to chronicle what I hope will lead from the pain of mourning to the glory of remembrance.
Showing posts with label Cheerleader. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Cheerleader. Show all posts
Thursday, August 19, 2010
Thursday, 19 August, 2010 -- Day 242 (255)
I decorated my girls' school lockers yesterday afternoon for their volleyball season. I felt like a cheerleader again. We never decorated players' lockers, but we did spend considerable amounts of time making posters to hang in the hallways. So as I created and cut and taped, I smiled, realizing how much happier I was doing this for my daughters than I ever was doing it for my peers. Not sure if I ever mentioned this, but Mom was a cheerleader too until she got married at 16 and quit school after her junior year. I just now realized that she would've finished her junior year of high school as a married woman since Mom and Dad were married 16 January 1947. It all makes sense now. She used to tell me how Dad didn't want her to be a cheerleader anymore after they got married. She should've been still been a cheerleader for the basketball season. How strange to have heard Mom mention this for most of my life and for it to just now sink in. I must be the ultimate in dense. I guess I've never really taken the time to put all the details of Mom's life in perspective. If it wasn't for this blog, I'm not sure that I ever would.
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